I have pictures of the nikah ritual, the feast and party. I have understood from the answers on this website that there are no restrictions between a man and a woman after the nikah, even though the marriage has not been consumated yet. There is no difference in khula procedure in Pakistan even the rukhsati takes place or not. He needs to start talking to your family about getting married again. but in Pakistan molana sahib said without 3rd divorce girl could not get married to another man untill she received all three notices from ex husband whether their marriage was consummate or not. There is no rukhsti so u r not eligible for half or full haq mahar. and if so, can I get a copy of the divorce paper? Regards. https://quran.com/65, Here are the quran references for you to read yourself regarding the triple divorce rule: Or if you wish to be more righteous you should give up your right to half of it. If so then what should I do? In the situation where only the legality of the nikaah ceremony is performed and the consummation of marriage or rukhsati, when the husband and wife actually start living together as a family, is put off for a later date with the consent of both parties, there is absolutely no harm. Talaq is not a game, so plz refrain from playing with it, Call your wife and apologize The message for divorce should come from him and not his first wife. I hope things work out for you. There is nothing that says a girl must receive three divorces before she is considered divorced. Her age is a concern for me as she is older than the age mark I would have considered for marriage. Sir please reply me I will be so thankfull to you because I am in sever tension what I do either this is right or wrong in our relegion. Sir I don't know how I register myself and put my question plz answers my questions So give them a present, and set them free, i.e., divorce in a handsome manner.â [al-Ahzaab 33:49]. There are countries (such as Saudi Arabia), where people can be arrested, tortured, even murdered if they speak out against the government. He was already married living with his 1st wife and three kids in uk. It does not apply to someone who feels the ordinary anger that most people experience. I don't know how I can delet my msgs from this site otherwise I explain in details. Her parents wont allow a divorce so she is begging me.. But this should be in line with your faith. And to forego it is nearer to righteousness. Alhumdullilah I am working and I live with my parents. He didnt touch me. Though no rukhsati cannot be the only grounds of khula in Pakistan but can surely be mentioned along with other grounds of khula in Pakistan. Allah bless you. Thus it is fundamentally wrong to put restrictions on the degree and nature of contact between couples after the Nikah has occurred. By the way, "halala" is a haram and cursed practice. I want to know am i fully divorced? This entails two things. As-salÄmu âalaykum wa-rahmatullÄhi wa-barakÄtuh. These were my exact words and I only texted this once in a fit of anger. Pre-Nikah. how much does a woman have to obey her husband after nikah , before rukhsati, i do not know. Allah bless you. That is final ceremony has not been done yet. Also, there is no 'iddah. Did he later ask to get married to you again and if so how long after the divorce? I'm glad that was helpful. Restrictions after Nikah done but no Rukhsati. What we might call in the modern world, "temporarily insane." Salam. The only way you can remarry him is if you marry someone else sincerely, intending to stay with that person, and then through the natural course of time and events you end up getting divorced. 19. I think this Molana sahib is mistaken and you should try another one. I didn’t disclose my correct age during Nikah. I never wanted to be divorced i still love him alot.please guide me is it halal to remarry him without marrying another person first? âHis mom threw a fit last time we met, so now he says we canât go out for a few weeks. maiyrah, are you in a hurry to marry someone else? http://legacy.quran.com/search?q=divorce. First 2 divorcs receive my mother I was sad because I don't want to take divorce. Where no rukhsati took place the wife has to return all the haq mehar if she has received the haq mehar as prompt dower and in case she has not received any dower amount she has to surrender the entire dower amount and she will not be entitled to receive any dower amount from his husband which was mentioned in the nikahnama. thank you. Posted by 9 days ago. Rukhsati takes place after the Nikah. So after his death is iddah necessary for me.. Reference to show that without being touched there is no waiting period: We don't have intercourse we met twice or thrice in which he jst hold my hand or kiss me or only few times we did talk on phone about sex otherwise we don't have sexual contact. You should just talk to him and confirm whether or not he is going through divorce with you. Please register and submit your question as a separate post, thank you. So in any case, if a wife wants to get divorced she has to file khula after nikah. Nikah was done, a Mahar was set, he pronounced divorce and told you and your mother. Khula is basically a right of divorce initiated at the instance of wife but it not only the female who have right of divorce. U have to say talaq three times in order for a permanent separation. Husband go abroad and talk with girl and understand her mentality and want to get rid from that girl. No one should do it. They may do it for various social or personal reasons. Beyond that you can get married two more times to him without having to marry someone else first. By rukhsati I mean the bride has not been sent to my home. If you know the hadees they have that shows that no mahar is due I would like to see it. According to the Quran, he has to pay half unless you give up the right. In most cases the rukhsati takes place within a few hours after nikah, but sometimes families postpone the consummation of marriage or rukhsati for a later time. i did a court marriage and did not have any intercourse but we met and had romance, later on our both families forced me to divorce my wife. They are cultural and mean nothing in Islam. This is because they feel the loss of marriage and want to minimize their loss. Marriage-related dreams…a product of my thoughts? On 18th jun i received an image on whatsapp stating talaq nama sent by his 1st wife. If that were true then by the Quran the girl would have to receive the first divorce, stay with the ex husband, agree to have him taker her back, then divorce a second time, then agree again to be taken back, then finally divorce a third time to be free of him. At the time of 3rd divorce I was at home so I refuse to accept 3rd divorce paper and returns postman now my husband want to remarry me I don't know what is in his heart. Second, you both have some responsibilities towards each other. What does islam and our govt law say about this? However there were some isssues tht occured bfre nikkah bt they resolved all of them and we got nikkahfied, but later on they not only raised those issues but also abt those thngs tht are mainly cosidered at the time of proposal. If in such case i divorce her, will i be giving her the haq meher?? Can I meet my wife before rukhsati. Are they able to meet each other and spend time together? Some people attach marriage with rukhsati but the reality is that you get married after nikah and not after rukhsati. Khula without rukhsati can be obtained by wife. He divorced you and if you're saying that he hasn't touched you then his first divorce would be it. If so, then you cannot remarry him. Sorry again. After rukhsati, the spouses begin living together as husband and wife. When a nikah is done or when a marriage is solemnized the relationship of husband and wife is created. I don't know if this applies to you but if you feel that he will not be able to keep within the limits of Allah then perhaps give it back. If he's not asking then you might as well start looking. However, is there any way tht i can remarry him, although the divorce is being imposed on me against my will. There is no waiting period. When you marry believing women, and then divorce them before you have sexual intercourse with them, no âiddah have you to count in respect of them. Pre-Nikah. After Rukhsati the spouses begin living together as husband and wife. brother thnx for your guidance, i did a proper nikah as per sharia, actually it was my love marriage, i did not do the intercourse because we left all this after rukhsati, and also my wife did not allow it. Will my future wife also have engaged in sexting? you can remarry with the same girl with out any halala. Rukhsati takes place after the nikah. (Do I need to redo the Nikah or just say to her that I take you back or some other thing). To me this verse is pretty clear and not complicated. Just about a month ago while in an argument on whatsapp text messages I divorced my wife once texting her 'Main Khuda Ko hazir nazir jankay tmhain talaq daita hn'. Deoband scholars are saying, if u give three divorce at once, it applies. Gifts are gifts and not loans, once you give them you have no right to them. Usually there are two witnesses at the end of divorce to confirm divorce occurred but in your case he has said it three times to multiple people. It was not disclosed to me that she had a nikah in the past which ended in divorce before ruksati. My husband wants to have a marital relationship with me now. Re: husband and wife rights after nikah and before Rukhsti or wedding:wswrwb: If you both had your nikah (she said Qabool Hai and you said Qabool Hai) signed the paper, had 2 witnesses, etc. These are the limits of Allah, so do not transgress them. Allah give me justice its my believe. my problem is, i used the words of three divorce unwillingly in 1 sitting. I am aware that this is an acceptible practice. I am now in my home country. ÙÙØ§ÙÙ ÙÙÙØ§ Ø¹ÙØªÙØ§ÙÙ ÙÙÙ Ø¥ÙØºÙÙØ§ÙÙ What are the rules for Iddah if divorce takes place after marriage but before its consumption? . Without getting married again to you there would be no meaning in receiving a second divorce. Every time, he gets back home late, she starts investigating whether heâd been out on a date with me.â shared a friend after her nikah. Should I submit my spousal sponsorship case now, mentioning that Rukhsati will be held in october 2016. First divorce he sent in September second in November and 3rd in January 2017 which I refused to ascept after tha we talk on phone after month or week in which he consistently apologise but I don't call or massage him. My question is can i remarry him without halala?? Therefore, the divorce cases go before a judge for a decision. He divorced me via signining onto the divorce papers n also uttered to me on call but verbal ws once my question is how mny divorces are implied. I have had my nikah. I am guilty of adultery but my husband doesn’t know, We are living separate lives even though we are married, I saw Prophets Moosa, Muhammad and Esaah (peace be upon them all) in my dream. So-called "halala" is forbidden in Islam. And to forgo it is nearer to righteousness. were married in abudhabi and divorced. I have a Question if husband give Talak to his Wife without Rukhasti after Nikkha is there any Haq meher Wajib to husband? Don't Ruin it. I'm saying that a means of keeping the peace is provided here and if you wish to keep the peace and are able to due to your level of faith then Allah has nothing against it. Thing Living in Saudi, get married online by Philippines? Talaq or divorce is not a joke in Islam to be taken lightly. During that time he can take you back: Rukhsati and "big" wedding are not Islamic concepts. The answer is that yes the female can take khula before rukhsati in Pakistan. Divorce is twice. I married my husband on 15th march. He later on also saif tht he has given one divrce bt noone encouragd him to move ahead. PLEASE CLEAR MY DOUGHT ON THIS MATTER.. So he just keeps sending "I divorce you" through the mail or through your mom? I wonder where he got the idea that paying mahar is not required if there is no ruksati. Is my Nikah valid? nor any English translation. 3- Announcement: Marriages, especially the ceremony of nikah is performed in order to announce the marriage. My husband and I got divorced but we have not had sex in 2 years years. My wife had our Nikah two years back without Rukhsati. Is their an islamic basis for rukhsati. We are planning on doing rukhsati and valeema in October, 2016. Allah states, "O you who believe, fulfill your promises." And if i still want to remarry him can i do it without halala? The husband should keep up to his promise and not be intimate with his wife before the rukhsati. Divorce idda of women without rukhsati. If yes what are the restrictions in meeting. Or he forgo's his right to half the Mahar and gives you all of it. Furthermore, I'm not sure if you were ever even married. Or if he wishes to be more righteous he should give full. This is not someone who cares about you or loves you. However, the scholars have said that this only applies when someone's anger is so intense that he can be considered - at least in that moment - to not be in control of his own mind and actions. What happened each time he sent the divorce? Find someone better inshaAllah. In most cases the Rukhsati takes place within a few hours after Nikah, but sometimes families postpone the consummation of marriage or Rukhsati for a later time. If he doesn't have proof that mahar is not required when there is no ruksati then he will have to answer for this on the day of judgement. http://www.systemoflife.com/fiqh/talaq/203-the-issue-of-triple-talaq, May Allah (Swt) forgives the ummah nabi Muhammad (pbuh) Aoa sir I have married one year before our nikha was done in masjid in the presence of our relatives after nikha my husband went Saudi Arabia and rukhsti was decided after his return.my husband send me 3 divorce after one year at three months interval. I don't know if you are actually divorced, brother ali. Advocate Nazia deals in both khula and divorce procedure in Pakistan. See here: http://www.onislam.net/english/ask-the-scholar/family/waiting-period/170002.html. Only one has occurred You have 90 days to make ruju â Coool Apr 19 '19 at 17:22 This nikah before the rukhsati thing seems to be something which is an incredible hassle. He owes you half the mahr which if you wish to give up you may and life moves on. how can i get her back? My wife had our Nikah two years back without Rukhsati. If your ex-husband wanted to stay with you, he should not have sent you three divorces. We called them alot but he and his family never picked up our calls or told us the reason of this sudden divorce. After nikah the male and the female is husband a wife so even a rukhsati has taken place or not they are technically husband and wife and this relationship can come to an end on when if a husband divorce the wife or when the wife seek khula before rukhsati from the family court by hiring the services of a family lawyer in Pakistan. Therefore, nikah must be announced to everybody. I'm not saying that you've divorced twice so that this verse applies to you. what kind of divorce is this? Am I wrong for divorcing my violent wife? In many instances, the excuse is that the girl is young and she requires training in cooking and household matters. (p242) There is also Nikah Misyar, a non-temporary marriage with the removal of some conditions such as living together, permitted by some Sunni scholars. In most cases the rukhsati takes place within a few hours after nikah, but sometimes families postpone the consummation of marriage or rukhsati for a later time. But we talk on phone and meet in family gathering. You can tell him that if he's not talking then what exactly are you waiting for? Plz pray Allah help me. However, one must ensure that he avoids areas of fitnah and impermissible acts when going on a honeymoon. In any case, the answer is yes, 'iddah is still required in your case. Next, please don't use halala, you're supposed to marry your new husband with the purpose of marrying him and not marry him with a divorce already planned. i am confused what to do? After the nikah, the girl or her parents wish to keep the girl back for some reason or the other. my husband said return us gold ornament which is cost one lac rupee.he said I don't want to give you haq mahar. Sorry for the delay in response, I thought I had already responded. rukhsati literal meaning is Departure. Nikkah is legal marriage and Ruksati is a cultural tradition. my husband divorce me by telling the court that I am not in the country anymore. In that case you could remarry him. : And if you divorce them before you have touched them and you have already specified for them an obligation, then [give] half of what you specified - unless they forego the right or the one in whose hand is the marriage contract foregoes it. When a nikah is done or when a marriage is solemnized the relationship of husband and wife is created. Nikah renders both of you legally husband and wife. PS we had nothing amongst us no consummation o marriage nothing. Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Khula is a right of divorce available to a wife which can be exercised in Pakistan by applying khula in family court through a divorce lawyer in Pakistan. Did you have a proper Islamic nikah? Perhaps you will be given a better husband in this life and if not then with patience a better one in the life to come. South Asian Muslims who don't do rukhsati along with nikah usually treat the "nikah" like an engagement until rukhsati takes place, which is Islamically wrong but culturally an accepted practice. For the purpose of khula before rukhsati in Pakistan a family lawyer in Pakistan files the case in family court. Are you talking about the Islamic divorce or the civil divorce? Darul Fiqh was established in 2011 and has answered over 5,000 queries from across the globe. then you both are married. Kindly suggest the Islamic ruling for talaq (divorce) needed from female after having nikah not rukhsati after a period of 1 month. Through association of shame, and indecency, even going out on a date before the Rukhsati is treated as a besharmi. I went back to see her in the beginnning of this year for three weeks and I lived at her place for the whole period since I don't have any home in India anymore. Khula before rukhsati can be taken any time as the khula is the right of wife and the wife can initiate the legal divorce procedure in Pakistan. All there's left is rukhsati and valeema. One lac rupee is not more than someone' s life. IF A WOMEN IN NIKAH BUT STILL LIVE WITH HER PARENTS AND HER HUSBAND WHO DIDNT EVEN TOUCH HER GIVE DIVORCE THAN IT WILL BE NECESSARY FOR HER TO DO IDDAH. If the marriage has not been consummated then you can get half of your mahr back. Are those women forbidden to marry another man and must become a second wife to the ex-husband so that he may divorce them two more times before they can accept a new husband? I strongly suggest you forget about this man and move on with your life. You must observe the standard 'iddah. After rukhsati, the spouses begin living together as husband and wife. After that he would either retain you in a good manner or let you go in a good manner. The second thing is that he can't divorce you three times without marrying you three times. You know divorce in our society is stigma for women.they try to derail my name without any sin. sadia, it's not clear to me if the marriage was consummated. Does he want to marry you again? I left for Canada 3 days after Nikah but before that I had some deep intimate moments with my wife (but didn't had intercourse). ... For some reason we have to get civically married in my country before she can eventually come and live with me permanently. I have one question, if a widow marry again n her husband divorce her without having any physical relation. To divorce you must first be married, you cannot divorce 3 times without being in a state of marriage 3 times. Ibn âAbbaas said: âAllaah made divorce after marriage.â 5. Guess Who? Salam, However, if the wife forfeits her right of deferring intimacy until rukhsati, then it is permissible for the husband to â¦ For khula without rukhsati the wife can hire the services of a law firm. The concept of rukhsati is regarded as a mutual agreement in Shariah. We did not hve anythng amongst us, we did nt consummated our marriage. please guide me according to Sharia. And it is not lawful for you to take anything of what you have given them unless both fear that they will not be able to keep [within] the limits of Allah . I had my nikah last year then next day my husband went back to USA.my rukhsati was planned upon my visa arrival.so my marriage was never consummated.but after 18 months of nikah and beforr my visa came i got an online email from my husband in which he wrote the word talak 6 times and signed it.he also stopped my visa. He can't just tell you that he divorces you three times in the past. Do I need to observe a 3 month Iddah or is 1 month enough? Accordingly, it is permissible to go on a honeymoon after oneâs nikÄá¸¥, even if the rukhsati (the day a wife goes to live with her husband) and walÄ«mah did not take place as of yet. What legal and islam point of view on it. The reality of it is if you had been touched you would have to stay with him for the iddat period. What is permissible for a husband after doing the marriage contract with his wife and before announcing the consummation of the marriage? If, however, you have been physically intimate, then my understanding would be that you would need to complete the prescribed waiting period (3 months after divorce is given). In reality though people like money and there are people that won't pay mahar even multiple years after divorce. Inshallah things will work out for you. There is no contact between us after divorce n it is my will to remarry him. You can give up your right to your mahar and gift back the jewelry. Salam sir I went back to see her in the beginnning of this year for three weeks and I lived at her place for the whole period since I don't have any home in India anymore. It will be another sin to count against him. âThere is no divorce and no freeing of slaves when it is done by force or in a state of intense anger.â On forcing by both the families i used these words by uttering her name, in her absence, "i divorce, i divorce, i divorce". After that he needs to come back talk to your wali and get married again. In addition to the usual marriage until death or divorce, there is a different fixed-term marriage known as zawÄj al-mutÊ»ah ("pleasure marriage") (p1045) permitted only by the Twelver branch of Shi'ite Islam for a pre-fixed period. We held off the rukhsati because my immediate family could not participate. IslamicAnswers.com Staff Photo Gallery. 1. After nikah, the couple are officially considered husband and wife and the Islamic commandment of veiling no longer applies between them. Still waiting for rukhsati.. Now the girl wants me to divorce her.. Aoa sir, A wife needs a reason for khula in Pakistan which she needs to establish in the family court through evidence provided by the female through her divorce lawyer. Close. The husband can also adopt the legal divorce procedure in Pakistan even if rukhsati takes place or not. Fazal, if you divorced her without consummating the marriage then there is no need to pay mahr. Because u said talaq once is idda is necessary? I don't want to divorce her and All I want to know that by giving that one talaq have I actually divorced her or not. What are the rules for Iddah if divorce takes place after nikah but before marriage? If the marriage was not consummated, then the three divorces were superfluous, since your marriage would have been automatically dissolved immediately after the first talaq. Restrictions after Nikah done but no Rukhsati. Can they have right to demand something. Is he the one initiating the divorce? the term is used that after nikah sometimes the girl stays at her fathers home and when they send the girl to her husband the ceremony is called Barat/rukhstai in pakistan and india. However, if wish to be more righteous then you may give that back to him. And get back together, Marriage is a beautiful Rukhsati technically means consummation of marriage or having sex between husband and wife so as per Islam if the rukhsati has not taken place or the marriage has not been consummated then the wife has no need to abserve the period of iddat as the main reason of observing the iddat period is to solve the issue of parental rights of a new born baby so if there was no rukhsati then the wife don’t need to observe the iddat period. JazakAllah My understanding of how the triple divorce works is that first you have to be married and then married again after each divorce. Then I came back to Canada. But if your faith is such that you will be closer to Allah if you give it back then you should: https://quran.com/2/229: The Nikah (ÙÙÙØ§Ø) is the formal marriage ceremony where a marriage contract, or Nikahnama (ÙÚ©Ø§Ø ÙØ§Ù Û), is signed by both the bride and the groom in presence of close family members.The Nikah is typically performed by a religious scholar at a mosque, such as an Imam, Mufti, Sheikh or Mullah, who in Pakistan will be licensed by the government to perform the ceremony. Your husband can divorce you against your will. It's not clear if you mean he gave you 2 talaaqs at once (which would only count as one) or on separate occasions. Firstly is this permissable, secondly if we do Nikkah are we allowed to have sexual relations before Rukhsati? People ask us that can a female take khula before rukhsati? She can't forward you a message because you can't be sure that he's the one sending it. You have to get back together after the first divorce within the iddah period, or have to get a new nikah post iddah period. Within that period you're not supposed to leave his house and he is supposed to provide for you. In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. I am familiar with these hadith and do not care for your condescending tone. WHAT IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KHULA AND DIVORCE? Then, either keep [her] in an acceptable manner or release [her] with good treatment. they also say, if you and your wife got some moments in private and got opportunity to have sex but you did not, then you cannot remarry unless your wife marry with some one else (halala). Sir on haq mahar my in laws have also many own hadees in which they are not bound to pay me haq mahar. My husband is not standing up for me against his parents, My husband abandoned me for the second time during pregnancy, My abusive father is creating family unrest and chaos, My wife threatens to leave me because I am not well-settled, http://www.systemoflife.com/fiqh/talaq/203-the-issue-of-triple-talaq, http://www.onislam.net/english/ask-the-scholar/family/waiting-period/170002.html. To remarry you he would have to do a new nikaah. our marriage is not registered anywhere. The marriage in Islam is the Nikah NOT Rukhsati which is a cultural carryâover of the Indian subcontinent. But he not touch me never ever. But if you fear that they will not keep [within] the limits of Allah, then there is no blame upon either of them concerning that by which she ransoms herself. Good luck in your life. If you will resent Allah for giving back the Mahar and the jewelry then that would be bad. Rukhsati takes place after the nikah. In any case, many scholars count the "triple talaq" as one divorce, so if you want to remarry her you can do so. Indeed Allah, of whatever you do, is Seeing. thank you for your response. We did nikah on 15 march and then he went back. They may do it for various social or personal reasons. Also consider, how do you divorce someone two more times when the first divorce made it so you were no longer married to them? Its not over ’til the Trumpet is Blown – Sin and Repentance in Islam, The Sin of Fornication and Adultery – Part 1, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication – Part 2, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication – Part 3. I left for Canada 3 days after Nikah but before that I had some deep intimate moments with my wife (but didn't had intercourse). No you are not divorced Otherwise the talaq is binding. But I think he shouldn't be forbidding her from a normal life as that would only harm her in the longrun. There again we had number of deep intimate bedroom encounters (but no intercourse this time as well). If your case is that you haven't even been touched then there is no waiting period. In the Family Courts in Pakistan, reconciliation by arbitration is attempted during the court proceedings. And do not forget graciousness between you. I got my nikkah done in auguust 2015 and within 3 months i got divorced over baseless issues. The girl lied about her age and I found out her actual age after nikah when I started speaking to the girl. The wife is entitled to seek divorce from her side with eventual consent of the husband (khula) or by dissolution of the marriage through a judicial order (faskh). And Allah knows best. 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